Valentine’s Dinner and Anxiety.

This year’s Valentine’s Day was pretty much business as usual. The hubs and I went out to dinner the night before so we wouldn’t have to deal with crowds and find a sitter. I received my super yummy chocolate covered strawberries from Shari’s Berries. If you’ve never had them they are so delicious and the best Valentine’s present a girl could ask for! My hubs has been sending them to me on V day for years and I’ve never been disappointed. One year he tried to go all expensive gift on me and I felt bad because I was disappointed I didn’t get my strawberries! Lol! All was golden. Until the end of dinner.

We went to Red Lobster because the hubs wanted crab legs and well I could eat lobster everyday! We had a nice dinner, it wasn’t too crowded and we were stuffed. There ha been a family seated a few tables down and I had noticed the little girl earlier. While we waited for the waitress to bring back our receipt, the family got up to leave. As soon as the mom passed our table I heard a thump. She had fainted and fell face first into the carpet. The little girl ran to her mom crying mommy mommy get up. Trying to pull her up her cries getting louder. I ran to get some help because there was no staff around. As we sat there helpless I felt a little funny. And I knew it was coming back

My chest felt tight and I began to think about Andrea and my boys. I began to breathe faster and then the tears came. The hubs looked at my like I had just grown another head. Are you okay? Are you crying. I nodded and excused myself. I told him I would be in the car I can’t take this.

My anxiety is coming back. The anxiety I felt after my aunt’s death and the birth of our second child. The anxiety that someday my boys could be without me or worse something would happen to them. When hubs gets in the car he sees I’m borderline hyper ventilating. He reassures me she is ok. Apparently she was sitting up and talking when he left. But now I’m scared again. I keep hearing the little girl and dreaming about my boys doing that to me. I want to cry. I am trying to keep it at bay. I am trying to breathe deeply and take it moment by moment. I beat this once before I can beat it again.

Advertisements

About thecoffeeqween

I am a 30 something year old mom, wife, and lover of all things coffee and tea. I have two kick ass boys, a hubs who looks like Collin Ferrell, and a killer job as a store manager for Starbucks. Follow me as I juggle it all downing espresso, raising boys and learning to be happy with what I got!
This entry was posted in MommyTalk and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s