This weekend we said goodbye to soccer until next year and finally took some family pics so we can create a legit Christmas card!! I think I’m so amazed my husband did this it still doesn’t seem real. He is not one of those yes wife types, but recently I have been talking to him about saying yes when it’s a family thing and he doesn’t not want to but doesn’t want to either. He just questions everything and will eventually give in (most times) but I was saying if you love me sometimes it would make my life less stressful if you just said yes. Say it’s not my thing but it won’t kill me either. That way I know your point of view but know you’re also in for the greater good of my sanity.
Aiden had a great time playing soccer and met some great kids! I hope next is just as awesome and can’t wait since Caleb will be old enough to play as well. Soccer mom heaven!
We all have highs and lows. It’s easy to live in the highs and loathe the lows. It’s even easier to give up in lows. Sometimes you can’t, you really want to but you can’t. I am really struggling with my job right now. I have never had this hard of a time pulling a team together and getting our asses in gear! But I feel like I’m drowning some days, maybe not while I’m in it but later as I reflect I feel if.
Some of it is my anxiety. Some if it is the unknown. My hubs recently left his job. He wants to take time off before embarking on his new adventure. I told him I would support him but I cannot lie it’s been hard. Because he is home I expect if him what I expect of myself and well he can’t hang with that yet. He isn’t used to it and I finally succumbed to my anxiety and lost my ish on him last week.
At work I have partners who are burnt out and frankly I’m kinda burnt out too. I am so unsure of my direction and I have never felt this way before. I’ve been burnt before but I still had a clear path. Right now I have a boss that I still have t connected with. At least not in any significant, this is going to work way. I feel so disconnected from it all I am not sure where to go.
This is a low for sure. A low I fear may last longer than I. I have got to keep swimming but at this lace I am acrid I might just drown.
We did a lot this weekend, as usual. We had Aiden’s soccer game, my husbands soccer game, and Sunday was our annual trip to the local farm for their October Fest for kids. It was a blast! The boys were so excited to wear their Halloween costumes for the first time and we even picked some apples today!
My Sunday always ends with preparing the boys lunch for school the next day. Tomorrow I packed a little love message!
Man this week has been so busy. I feel like it has been one fire after another and my extinguisher is almost empty. Not sure when I am going to be able to recharge. The little time I am getting with the boys is going to have to do.
Work has left a funny taste in my mouth. I can’t seem to get my bearings. I’ve had a new boss since April and we still haven’t clicked and now it’s bugging me. I’ve never had this happen and frankly it sucks balls. I have so many new people and business is picking up. It is stressful. People either don’t notice or don’t care that it takes time to build up a team. And well it all falls on my shoulders. I have some really great partners and my supervisors are picking up the slack and rocking it but it’s hard man. And it’s not even holiday time!
The mister has a whole lot of nothing and potential for greatness going on and the whole not knowing part scares the crap out of me!! I just lay in bed with my mind spinning and then I’m so exhausted because I can’t get any good sleep. More weight on my hunched over shoulders.
The kids are non stop, but what else is new. We just seem to go even more than ever on the weekends that I’m not pausing to rest.
I know I sound complainy but I’m not. I know I’m so lucky that these are my problems! I am so lucky that soccer, lunches for the boys, and the business of life is problem. My shoulders are just getting a little heavy.
This week and last week and the week before, we have been talking a lot about routines and finding the best way to get a task done. I love routines. I like having a plan for my day and checking things off my list and getting that shit done!!! It makes me feel so accomplished even if it’s just the little things.
So I started thinking how can I encourage this behavior in my children? First if all, I have boys which scan by nature be notoriously messy and if genetics get the best of them they will NOT be planners like my husband. But as babies they all quickly feel into a great schedule on their own and still thrive on a schedule no matter how loosey goosey it gets.
So I am thinking if developing simple routines for my 6 year old. Then I will tackle the 3 year old. The baby, well he still has a year or two to go before I get to him!
This week we are focusing in after school routines. Aiden has a good morning routine going. Get up, brush teeth, get dressed, pack back pack and grab a bite and we are out the door. After school it is unpack back pack(lunch box in the sink mainly) pick up bedroom, homework, reading time, and then fun fun fun!!!
I’m thinking we can go with this for a bit, don’t want to throw too much at him. I figure if we focus on one routine at a time we won’t forget the old routines when we learn the new ones! Do you follow routines? How does it work in your house?
Well I have recently decided to become an independent Mary Kay Beauty Consultant. I’m really excited and a whole lot of nervous. I am NOT a person to run out and upsell people. Having to start a business from the ground up where I sell so much of myself has never been in my plans. But I need to make some extra income and this is a product I was already using.
I was a part timer user of Mary Kay and when a friend suggested I join her team I thought well why not?! I have started using the Timewise 3 in 1 cleanser every night along with the night serum and moisturizer. As a girl who has pretty good skin to begin with, I never felt like a beauty regimen was for me.
I wear mineral make up and with a full time job and 3 kids ain’t nobody got time for that! But it doesn’t take me long at all. Just a few minutes added to my nightly routine of brushing my teeth and I love the way my skin feels. Funny how that happens. So if you could just wish me a little luck and maybe some positive vibes sent my way to get this going would be much appreciated! And you can always swing by and take a look at our products on my personal website
I can’t remember if I have talked about cutting my hair but I do know I haven’t really posted any pics. I finally had the nerve to chop off all my hair after finding some really great pics and tutorials on pixie cuts and slightly longer pixie cuts.
It’s just now growing out a bit and I’m having to relearn my styling but I absolutely love it! I told the hubs I may never grow it out. And despite all his apprehension he says he loves it too. But here’s the part that I’m unsure of:
Everyone loves it. Okay so my sister doesn’t and I secretly think my mom doesn’t either, but my sister doesn’t like short hair so whatever. But everyone that has seen me has commented on how much they like my hair. How “its so me” or “suits me so well”. I’m kind of getting paranoid.
What does this haircut say about me? I have no clue if people are being nice (I think they are) I have no clue what makes this hair cut “so me” other than maybe it’s daring for a lot of people and I am the black sheep or rebel, if you will, of the family.
I have never had so many compliments or talk about my hair. At first I was eating it up ( okay maybe I am still) but people who never comment on my hair (men in my family) have stopped to say how much they like it. Man I hope they aren’t just being nice because they think its awful. I really do love it! What do you think?
This weekend was so much fun but I’m so paying for it right at this moment! I got an extra day off work ( which I totally needed) I took the extra time to clean my house really well and play with my babes a little too. But honestly those 4 extra hours didn’t give me as much extra time as I thought! We had soccer, a family party, and then lots of football, friends, and food on Sunday. I feel so blah from eating junk all day long!!! Blah! But I got some cute pics of the kids! I forgot to take one off and the hubster on our night out dang it!
Friday night is movie night!
Aiden played a great game with 1 goal and 1 assist!
I could NOT get Callen to sit long enough to snap a pic!!! Crazy kid! Then my mom took the pic of the boys with my brothers Kansas City gear, needless to say we all love their sense of humor! Have a great week!!